What I've Learned...

Lesson Learned:

Attack the problem not each other

How I Learned It:

When arguing with your SO, the goal isn’t to win the argument. The goal is to solve a problem.

Nobody is a mind reader, so don’t go to your SO with “you should know why I’m upset”¬†bullshit.

If you’re doing things to intentionally hurt your SO, you’re an idiot.

The strongest relationships come from two strong, happy individuals coming together, not two broken individuals relying on each other for happiness.

Breakdown:

being on your partners side + addressing the real problem = a productive conversation


Rene C. 1923 male