How I Learned It:

When arguing with your SO, the goal isn’t to win the argument. The goal is to solve a problem.

Nobody is a mind reader, so don’t go to your SO with “you should know why I’m upset” bullshit.

If you’re doing things to intentionally hurt your SO, you’re an idiot.

The strongest relationships come from two strong, happy individuals coming together, not two broken individuals relying on each other for happiness.